Dave Grohl’s wife is reportedly having a “rough” time picking up the pieces after his bombshell affair, which produced a love child.

Jordyn Blum, 48, has been the Foo Fighters front man’s other half for 21 years. The pair share three daughters: Violet, 18, Harper, 15, and Ophelia, 10.

Grohl, 55, came clean about his infidelity and fourth child last month, and now “Jordyn is focused on her own life and her girls,” a source told People in an article published on Thursday.

“It’s been rough for her. Her mind is not on her marriage though. She doesn’t trust Dave. She’s not wearing her wedding ring,” the insider added. “She’s leaning on a group of girlfriends. She feels lucky to be surrounded by love and support.”

The “All My Life” singer revealed he had welcomed a child out of wedlock on September 10.

“I’ve recently become the father of a new baby daughter, born outside of my marriage,” his statement posted on Instagram read. “I plan to be a loving and supportive parent to her. I love my wife and my children, and I am doing everything I can to regain their trust and earn their forgiveness.”